Binder Resources/Bra Resources/Being A Fat FTM Means You Aren’t Allowed To Breathe, I Guess lmfao
K few things–
Having surgery, gonna be
MIA for a while probably
Also–
I see that there are
Plenty of resources available
For binder donation, that are
Totally and completely at capacity
For donation services.
I have personally witnessed
Other content creators
Attempt to meet this demand, and also
Fail miserably at it.
I sit here wondering–
What the fuck am I gonna do
With all of these fat-boy
Tomboy bras that are
Not for binding, but also
Not to be wasted
On someone who isn’t trying to make their chest
Seem less feminine.
Are they binders?
No.
Did I wear binders?
I have one.
It injured me within two hours
Personally– I think
If you’re a fat ftm
Binders are a threat to you, buddy
The certainly were to me
So were basically
All bras– you see
When you smash and compress
Your flesh trying to make it
Something else–
It gets damaged.
Maybe I need to start a new kind of
Binder giveaway site, a new kind of
Resource for ftms, one that
Includes non-binding binders, aka
Sports bras, that don’t
Fucking kill you when you wear them.
Ahhh but yes, I suppose
The haters will come banging down my door
Calling everyone who wears a sports bra
Instead of a binder
A “poser”
Meanwhile, back at the ranch–
The binder giveaway resources
Can’t meet demand–
Why is that, again?
Is it because
Of the complete and total lack
Of posers in the world, or is it because
These resources
Aren’t enough, and they never were
To begin with?
Why is it that
All trans ftm resources
Have to subscribe to the idea
That your chest has to be
Flat, in order to be masculine?
Why can’t man-boobs be a thing?
Why is it that
You have to prove yourself
With what you’re willing to sacrifice–
Your comfort, your ribs, the very air you breathe–
Your nipple sensation, your ability to breast feed–
Why is it that
In order to be a trans man
You have to give up everything
And bind your chest
Until you pass out and ascend to heaven
Reborn as a man lmfao?
Am I the only one who is over here
With a mountain of bras
One binder, and
Absolutely no one to give them to
Who won’t be offended
By the implication
That they don’t need to smash their chest
In order to look masculine?
Anyway– In summary
I wish I had a trust fund
Or whatever the fuck dad any of my gay male friends have–
That way I could start a new kind of
Binder giveaway organization–
One that accepts sports bras for trade,
One that agrees to giveaway
Non-threatening binders that don’t
Break your ribs, one that doesn’t get a sponsorship
From fucking GC2B
Or whatever the fuck new brand
Has come out
With some “safe binding alternative”
All I’m gonna say is
No matter how many sizes up I go
In my GC2B, I still can’t breathe.
Ain’t nobody advocating for my life
With an approach like this.