He/Him Lesbians

I don’t even know where to start I feel tremendous conflict about this.

I am one I’m pretty sure ?

Is a he him lesbian someone who

Uses he him pronouns and is a lesbian

Or is it someone who has not transitioned medically at all

And goes by he him pronouns

Why would medically transitioning change any of this …?

Why are the labels even used

I don’t get it

My sex is female and my gender is male

I am attracted to afab bodies and women

I don’t care if they are or are not hairy.

I have absolutely no idea what I’m supposed to do with this.

Here I am claiming to be an expert but I’m just an idiot.