Sex And Gender
My sex is female my
Presenting gender is male.
I’m non-binary because I have literally
De-coupled myself from the binary.
I am not denying sex, denying biology
I’m decoupling sex and gender
The way we all do
The way we all express
Just sucks because most people are attracted to
Gender is for friends and colleagues
Sex is for mashing bits
On the dating apps I am for some reason
A walking vagina despite my name and my presenting gender
No one who is looking for cock
Swipes right on me and
People that want pussy
Stop to chat with me.
I have two choices, be mad
Or just roll one, two, three
Understanding that my situation is better than it was
But ultimately irreparable.
I never thought it would be I just
Couldn’t bear one more minute
Of my friends and colleagues seeing me so differently from
The way that I am
They were decoupled from me
So I had to decouple in order for them to see.
Now people are just alarmed and astounded
Like I’m some sort of snake that unhinged it’s jaw and
Swallowed manhood whole
Meanwhile I’m simply making my own
Peace. It’s a reach. Something
Everyone understands is a right
Something everyone understands is alright
But to some people some things can’t be
Decoupled without a schism.
Sometimes I’m Eve, I live as Adam
It shouldn’t matter whether or not you’re fucking me.