The Broadening Of Binary Gender Ideology Through Absorption Of The Binary, Making Non-Binary Sex And Gender A Whole Concept Rather Than An Identity/More Of The Same Shittiness
I’m kinda getting to it I think.
Binary sex isn’t fucking real, folks.
Binary averages sure are, and
Biological realities, like chromosomes, are, well, real.
But binary sex– is perceived–
It’s expressed– some people
Insist on only male and female sexes, these people
Are wrong– we know that now.
It’s not up for debate, but
Whether or not
Non-binary is the sort of thing
That can be expressed physically,
Is irritating to me.
It’s like–
“How do I pass as both, neither and nothing?”
“Oh, honey–
The rando’s you meet in the world already have
Their mind made up about you.
Do whatever you want and
Stop trying to be read as something
Not a lot of people think exists”
Do I have an issue with non-binary cross-presenting?
Not at all– I have an issue with the folks who make it
Hard to get the point across–
That not all non-binary people are trans, and
Not all trans people are genderfluid– but
In order to be transgender
To begin with
You have to accept that gender is mutable.
You have to believe that the hormones are doing something.
To be one of these truscum trans guys who says
Non-binary folks are faking it– is to quite literally
Call yourself a faker.
Ya’ll– we all came from similar places, we all take
The same sorts of medications.
Why am I upset about nothing?
I guess I just wish
The trans community
Would do something besides fuck itself to death.
The infighting is getting to the point
Where that’s all that’s left!
I read some of these forums and it’s like
A bunch of teenage idiots at a bus stop
Screaming about how nobody understands them–
Perhaps you’re all misunderstanding eachother
On purpose.
A friend of mine said–
“You know–
The sexuality movement went really well, pretty quickly, didn’t it?
I wonder what the difference is”
I tried to explain–
First off, perception lmfao
cough cough AIDS also Reagan also
Anita Bryant.
The difference is
Nobody wants anything to do with us, not even
Us. It’s just bumper cars,
Angry, reductionist takes
Overcompensation in all ways, and then
At the end of the day
Nothing changes– just more
Outrage over outrage, more of the same shittiness.
Probably because of the internet.
The interconnectedness is just
Ridiculous.
Solution?
Stop painting non-binary as something that is contained by trans ideas.
It’s reductionist. Also– not all non-binary people are trans.
It has much bigger potential if we open it up
As something cis people are included in, that reframes
How they might see the world, and where
Everyone else fits in it.
Imagine– a generation that treated genderqueer feelings
As a normal human baseline– how much less stigma would there be
If people could confidently come out as cisgender, heterosexual, and nonbinary
Without having to be trans, or join a cult, or
Change their hair, clothes, and lifestyle, like they joined an army.